For those who were hurt before, or not

He broke your heart and said goodbye

After promising forever

You wonder why you even tried

He was such a good pretender

The love you gave was all in vain

And nothing anyone can say

Could ever make you love that way again

I’ve read a couple of blogs and short stories, that shares the same theme. If the character was hurt in a previous relationship, he/she would somehow feel nadadala, natatakot ng magmahal ulit. Yung iba nga halos isumpa pa.’’hindi na ko magmamahal ulit’’ ‘’ Ayaw ko na masaktan’’ Kahit ako naman, guilty dito (dati yun:P)

But this song, somehow reminded me na hindi dapat ganun ang mindset.

It’s the lover not the love

Who broke your heart last night

It’s the lover not the dream

That didn’t work out right

If you listen to your heart

Oohh you know its true

It’s the lover not the love

Who deserted you

Feel good song, right?

Don’t stop reaching for the stars

Let tomorrow live inside you

And just remember who you are

Keep the faith and love will find you

A heart in love can lose it’s true

But don’t give up in time to find

The one who’s right will come to you

 So continue your life and mingle. Being alone does not mean you have to be lonely.

Kaya nga may salitang move on. Healing. And next time.

It’s the lover not the love

Who deserted you

It does no good to second guess

Whether love is wrong or right

If it was meant to be

He’d be with you tonight

Di ako emo, natuwa lang ako sa kanta :D

is your SO like your CP?

ang cellphone at boyfriend/girlfriend ay may mga pagkakapareho pala talaga. kaya wag ng magtaka kung bakit ganun na lamang ang pagkagiliw ng mga tao sa kanikanilang SO (in this case, CP)

let's rundown how it works :

the selection period
wifi,budget,OS,features. ilan sa mga bagay na kinokonsidera kapag naghahanap ng CP. Parang SO lang. Kumbaga sa chat, '' ASL please''. Anong height?Face Value? San nag-aral? Mabait ba?  and the list of questions go on....

the getting to know you stage
do you read the manuals? or go straight tweaking your CP? ako kasi adik sa manual, feeling ko pag di ko nabasa, im missing out on the basics. kaya siguro adik rin ako magresearch hehehe, nagpapakabusy ako maghanap ng info online tungkol dun sa boylet, facebook, google search, info from friends, whatever i can use to atleast have an idea who he is. plus of course, i ask the person directly. mas masaya naman makuha yung feedback directly dun sa tao , tama?

eto na malupit, pag may mga di napagkakasunduan,
halimbawa na lang, di ko pa talaga maintindihan pano gamitin tong bago kong phone, kailangan ko ng pdf reader app para mabasa yung libro na dinownload ko, binasa ko manual, online help, kaso eto wala pa rin. at napipika ako. kasi di ko magets kung ako yung engot umintindi, or magulo lang talaga magexplain yung website. parang SO lang, nakakainis minsan pag di kayo nagkakaintindihan, pero di mo naman basta papalitan dahil lang dun tama? take time to understand, parang itong downloading lang, di ko toh susukuan!

in the long run
umamin tayo, andaming lumalabas na bagong unit buwan buwan, level up kung level up ang features. nakakatempt kumuha ng bago, nakakasawa rin kung yun at yun ang phone mo. ang tanong ngayon, bibili ka ba ng bago? may pambili ka ba? kailangan mo ba talagang bumili? parang SO, dumadating talaga yung time na pag matagal na kayo, iisipin mo, ito na ba talaga? hindi naman sa hindi mo na mahal or anything, siguro normal lang talaga na minsan, may makilala ka na mas higit sa kanya. di naman ibig sabihin, you loved him/her less. di ba? so its still your choice kung magpapalit ka... ng CP.

**** nababaliw kasi ako sa bago kong phone, Si Sam ( hehe binyagan ng pangalan, koreano pa nga eh, Sung ang last name :P ) mejo advance kumpara dun sa pinalitan niya, si Cherry Mo Bile, (vietnamese?)  i got a samsung unit, gt something (kitams nakalimutan ko na agad yung model, di kasi ako techie talaga na tao).so imagine na adjustment im going through ;( pucha pati tong touchscreen pinahihirapan ako hahaha
kaya ayan, dito ko na binuhos frustration ko :D